Enchanted realm

As of now...

Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:03:31 GMT

Actually this is something I have known for years.

Donkey years.

And as I hear it at least once every year, I've become numb.

I have always been, officially been, a woman, that is a bad influence to wives.
A person, that a lot of husbands do NOT like and forbid their wives to be friends with.
Telling their wives to not be like me.

The person, that the wives (yes the same wives!) run to, after their bitter divorces with THOSE husbands (:O!)

life is sweet. Dolce. Its full of victory.

Sickly sweet victory.

Why am I not surprised when I hear another "Babe, dulu kan (letak nama ex-husband di sini) tak suka aku kawan dengan kau. He just hates you when kau tak buat apa pun. I dont know why!"

There's always a price to pay, when you always mind your own business.

To the friends, who are temporarily gone, or should I say "taken away for a while", trying to win a war in a marital battleground, I will still be that friend, who you can count on.

Im not going anywhere.

Exes anonymous

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 06:35:17 GMT

WHAT DO YOU DO..........

when you bump into your husband's ex girlfriends? what do you check
out first? we women have the tendency to do this image scan/sweep ,
some use that to bitch, some do that just to study what's better to
impress the husband further.

What do I look at first when I bump into them?

I actually look down and see if they have painted toe-nails.

Yup. I dunno why but I do that, everytime. Not that I meet or bump into them
every week or often enough, but when I do, yeah, tengok kuku kaki dia.

What does that depict? style? cleanliness? fashionista? wealth?

I'm so proud of him. They are very pretty really.

And yes, I do peck their cheeks and say hello when introduced.
Sincerely. Two of them I remember looked very immaculate, almost
untouchable, but not in an airy kind of way. No hostility was
portrayed from both parties. Not that I care what they think either.

Ive always thought exes are interesting beings. Honestly.

But they are just good for first-impressions. I dont exactly intend to find out further than their painted toe-nails.

As for my husband, he feels its great to know they are alright. Not that I'm gonna marah if they wanna reminisce anything pun. After all, they were there before me.

2 years

Fri, 07 Nov 2008 06:38:01 GMT

2 beautiful years.

I want to be able to say that again for another 2 years or 20 years more and hopefully as my last career stop.

This place has brought a lot of merryment in my life and I thank it wholeheartedly.

That is why, late nights, or weekends, on demand..... is nothing.

Happy anniversary to me here.

*tiup lilin dari muffin O'Briens*

have I really lived it?

Wed, 05 Nov 2008 03:15:55 GMT

Sometime ago, someone 40-something said that he is tired of working already and he considered what he is in his career now as something he could easily say "I have arrived".

Well, I cant say that.

But I know I have lived lives not many have.

Yesterday, a friend (who I have learned more or less about life from these days, and him, me, I hope) asked me of how I can manage my time to have some "free"s in between.

I told him, that my soiled diaper days are over, i have had break ups and downs, travelled places and met faces, its just basically managing and raising what's left to a level and quality I could be happy or proud of.

I can't really see my life as having too much free time too. There's always multi-tasking "something" going on while I am doing something that looks like as if I am free. There's always something pending somewhere. Something long-overdue, etc. that makes me someone that don't even know the meaning of boredom anymore.

May not be the best or get the best in life, but make sure the best is done anyways.

Still there's a lot more to learn.

Time flies, when you're having fun

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:24:59 GMT

Ive dealt.

And will deal with it over and over again.

I wont lose my head over this, even though losing others to situations are happening quite often (quite? I really meant OFTEN!) in my life.

Another person will be gone soon. Chin up and pick up the pieces. Come next year, another one.

Just when I am having (lots of) fun.

If only ...

well, then............

back to basics. Home. Family. Love. home cooked food. Laughter. Hugs. Kisses. Eternal happiness. sleeping in each others arms. Smelling each others' hair when you hug. Inhaling the warmth and knowing you'll be there for each other as long as you live. Knowing forgiveness is not something taken advantage of out of any situations taken for granted.

The home where you come to, when you're good.. or bad.

And of course, there's faith.

You're luckier than me, mate. I wish I could get out of the country too.

A wish

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 03:57:44 GMT

A little Selamat Hari Raya wish from me and the family, to all our relatives, colleagues, friends, near and far (but nevertheless close to our hearts).

Maaf Zahir & Batin.

I will be celebrating the Raya in KL (never underestimate that KL Raya is not merry) and will be visiting the planned 7 houses on the first two days.

Sembahyang sunat Raya is diwajibkan in our beloved Bangsar mosque for nostalgic and sentimental purposes. Hope to see most of our old neighbours and lots of familiar faces on that Raya morning.

To all Muslims, have a good one. To the nons, happy hols! :)

Bitch Fit

Wed, 24 Sep 2008 03:13:41 GMT

The above is something I dont wish to throw out too often. I did it today. To get things done. Bossy? you bet. Because there is a boss somewhere up there who I have to answer to, too.

People can hate me already. But only reason with me if it makes sense. For I have answers in my hands, and I expect you do too.

Bitch fit or being drama queen is always part of my life. I am not proud of it if its done to those undeserving. But to those who drive me up the wall, face the music.

The one week

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 02:54:05 GMT

That is kind of beautiful, awkward............strange, weird..... I'd say.

And suddenly, Puasa month brought me back to earth.

Thank god for that.

Pussy

Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:14:43 GMT

The other day I was asked by a colleague of how Brazillian wax is done. So I told her, you lie down then spread your pussy to the waxing specialist, get stripped while screaming loudly in the room or into a towel. I didnt really get down explaining to the intricate details, when another colleague who was standing nearby made a remark "Tak baik tunjuk pepek kat orang"

Serious, memang tetiba jadi saat anti-climax. So me and the other friend was making a "hoh? " face yang jenis "who asked her???". Sebab the remark came from not a person who is someone who is worth listening to on ceramah ugama pun if it ever come about. I will seek if I need to. I mean, I do listen to ceramah ugama but from respectable people who I look highly upon. Whose ceramah ugama and the nilai2 ugama is practiced as well, and tak mengumpat orang hari2 or even talk profanities at the office, ya know that sorta thing.

So of course la I told her nothing but the truth "My husband pays for these things because he takde expertise to apply hot wax and strip my pussy"

She said "perempuan ke?"

I said "a-ah"..........

And of course dia kata jugak... "ye la, tapi berdosa"

then I said "mengumpat hari2 pun berdosa gak" which of course a statement that I didnt really make sure was heard or not.

Ok dont get me wrong, I dont have anything against the person, its just that why are you putting me in a thinking spot like that when I just couldnt care less, or judge of who you are and whatever you do around me. Nevertheless, I love her. She is so kakak-kakak senior di sini.

Okay, guilty as charged that I am berdosa for vanity practice. But, how else do I make him happy with a Brazillian? If she can say something like that and come up with a solution takpe. If nak tinggal remark, and takde solution after that apa kes? My happiness in marriage is not in anyone's hands.

What the Hoh is a HOH??

Tue, 12 Aug 2008 08:10:26 GMT

It suddenly triggered me to write this after I was asked abt this by my longtime friend Shahreel.

I bet most of you have heard me over-rate the word HOH like everywhere kan?

Okay, say a situation like when something happens and all you can do is just swear out profanities in public (which I most of the time do!) but sometimes, being modest, I just HOH it away!

Given situation if you see most Malays kan, when something happens and they helplessly say in a DRAGGY way "... sabar je la aku..." or the famous "tak tau la nak cakap macamana lagi :("

As for me (or my friend Aida the Queen of all HOHs) will just HAVE to say something. Like..........."this is so HOH!! " which could mean "this is so FUCKED UP!!"

It could mean from anything beyond good or bad. It could just mean anything unsay-able but you just gotta say something anyway!!

Contoh HOH yang digunakan is:

"Cant talk to you now, my boss is so Hoh today!"

"he is so cute , nanti aku hoh-kan dia"

"hoh la korang ni!"

" kita best dan hoh"

"suami2 orang yang hoh" (this could mean gatal/handsome/FILF/boroi/tak handsome) depending on the situation you talk about it in, it just jives and liek a puzzle, we both just seem to know what the HOH does it mean at that moment.

When you hold a party and suddenly orang tak datang after RSVP-ing coming, then you just let it out to describe the situation as "THIS IS SO HOH!!" sebab cam marah beyond words sebenarnya and you still so baik tak nak throw sarcasm kat orang sebab tak suka tengok orang merajuk.

Sometimes I will just shorten a sentence with the word and again, I know someone at least would understand:

"dulu aku tak suka Butterfingers sebab crowd peminat derang sangat hoh" (the HOH here means smelly/pogo/ugly/yucky/rempit)... see it could mean JUST ANYTHING!

So. if anyone tak paham my HOH... can Hoh off!